Learn to choose the pain

You drive a car. Night in a storm. You go through a station. There are three buses are waiting. One is the dying of the elderly, and poor. One is a doctor, he had saved your life, is a benefactor, you would like to repay his dream. There is also a woman man, she he is the kind of dream you have married people, perhaps there will be no missed. However, your car can only take one person, how would you choose?
Best Answer the doctor car keys and let him go to the hospital with the elderly, andI left with my dreams, such as a bus!
Why do so many people did not expect this answer, The reason is because many people did not expect to give up their own things - a car, so there are not three happiness.
Sometimes, to give up their own, but you will get more.
There is an old saying in China, called the can not have both fish and bear39s paw. Most people know the truth. For example, a fish and a bear39s paw in front of you before, if you can only choose one, many people will not hesitate to chose the bear39s paw.
If you already have a fish, but only to get a coin, are you willing to give up their own fish? Perhaps you will say you will, but in fact is kind of how it?
Most people do not know how to not give up, but they understand the waiver is in the choice to give up, but did not expect to give up sometimes is not reflected in his choice to give up, but also to give up their self-owned. chanel watches Therefore, thinking in my title, most people only choose one, they are only in their own faces three options to give up so chanel replica watch that it is usually the result.
You already have a little wealth, are now at risk are you willing to immediately take the investment to gain more wealth? You hesitate you. Be afraid because you bear the loss of that fish before. So you miss the opportunity of non-stop around.
Take a look at the story of a fox you
Was an unlucky hunter of foxes live presentation with a paw, it did not hesitate to gnaw the leg only, and then to flee for their lives. To give up a leg and the preservation of a life, this is the philosophy of the fox.
Come take a look at our practice of human right
MUI to 40-year-old Christina died, sadly too many people, but many people still can not believe that Anita Mui was suffering from cervical cancer, died a short span of less than three months. It is understood that in fact, doctors have urged MUI uterus cut off, but the biggest wish of MUI is get married and have children, fearing to remove the uterus leading to infertility, the doctor still refuses to accept the proposed surgery, and even refused to listen to uphold the ill advised to open Last , the result of accelerated deterioration in their conditions.
MUI as reluctant to lose their uterus, which led to the untimely death of Christina.
I have a friend, a period of time almost to the brink of bankruptcy, creditors him every day, they would have no funds to carry out a new career. He only left the house a living, many people advised him to sell the house, to pay off debt, but also can have some money to do something else in order to make a comeback. And he lived in that house for a very long time, it is very emotional, and he has all familiar with where to leave it, he will be very painful. He eventually chose to sell, although painful, but get a new lease on life.
Society sometimes painful choices in order to be happy
The success of the famous Anthony Robbins motivational master once said all of human behavior, there are only two, to avoid suffering and seek happiness. When we make a choice between the two, many people choose to avoid the pain. Because the feelings of most people, the be are going to bring, much less happy lost if the pain can bring. Therefore, most people prefer to hold in his possession, and he wants to give up the pursuit. This is what most people can not go beyond their own, and greater success.

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